Where to go on a spiritual retreat?

You do not need to be a believer to go on a retreat at an abbey. Many abbeys welcome people from all walks of life, whether they are committed to a faith or simply seeking calm, meaning, or inner stillness.
The spiritual setting is offered as a space for experience and discovery, respecting each person's individual journey, with no requirement for religious affiliation.

It is entirely possible to go on a retreat alone at a monastery or abbey. This type of individual retreat offers a time of silence and personal withdrawal, without a specific group program.
Guests generally have access to simple accommodation and an environment conducive to introspection, while sharing certain communal moments that are part of monastic life.

A spiritual retreat at an abbey unfolds according to the rhythm of the place and the community that inhabits it. Retreatants are invited to follow a structured framework, marked by regular times of silence, prayer, and community life.
The day is generally punctuated by the Divine Office, personal time, and moments of rest, offering a stable environment conducive to recollection and meditation.

Monastic hospitality is freely given. In most places, accommodation is offered in return for a free contribution towards costs, and each community gives an indication to help you decide. Each guest contributes according to their means, and money should stop no one from coming. A stay also means helping a little with household tasks: making your bed, lending a hand with the washing up. Everything is explained in our article How much does a spiritual retreat cost?

Yes. Most places welcome guests for one or two nights, and many also receive them for several days. The possible lengths of stay are shown on each place's page. To choose, browse the map of places.

Yes. Most places welcome couples. The type of welcome offered by each place is shown on its page, along with the themed retreats it offers.

Yes. Most places welcome women on their own. A few communities receive only men, or only women: this is shown on each place's page.

Yes. Many places welcome students who want to study in peace. The silence and the regular rhythm of the day help you concentrate. See also: why go to an abbey to study.

Yes. Most places offer a setting of silence: a quiet guesthouse, times of prayer, meals sometimes taken in silence. A few places offer strict silence. See also: going on a silent retreat in a monastery.